Friday 14 October 2011

Wisdom of the Week – Companionship


 
Lucian Eyers © 2008
 
2011 is a magical year. This year means we will no longer be in a relationship that does not fulfil our soul purpose.
This week I took the plunge and opened a Facebook account. What pleased me was to see friends who had found companionship, even though they feared a future of loneliness.
Before we are born we choose our life’s lessons and the souls we wish to spend time with, in order to develop. These souls are people who have often been with us in a past life. It may be we have unfinished business, or from past experience we believe them to be the best people to help us move forward spiritually. The twist is we also choose people we consider to be our enemies. These are probably the most difficult tests for us, which is why someone we dislike should be viewed as our teacher, rather than a nuisance. 

So why do relationships break down? 
There are several reasons. But generally they are based on the need for us to change and learn what we have agreed. If we are not doing this with our present partner, then we will be removed from that relationship. However, tolerance and forgiveness can help us emotionally override a departure from a relationship.
Tolerance is not enduring unacceptable behaviour and boycotting self-worth. It means understanding the limitations of others and guiding them when they are in need of help. 

So what about those of us who would like to be in a relationship but are not? 
Again there are several reasons for this. We may still need to learn the lesson of self-worth or independence. If we lack these qualities, we will attract people who will either try to bully or control us. This is not healthy for either party. Sometimes we will find ourselves in such relationships to learn lessons. But our higher selves have agreed this at a higher soul level. We can of course at anytime decide to change the way we are being treated and move forward. Remembering we have free choice is very important.

There is of course one friend of whom we are often unaware. This friend knows everything about us and will help us more than we can possibly imagine, but we have to ask them. It is our guardian angel. Our angel is present at our birth and when we pass over. They keep our karmic records and can give us guidance that will always be for the higher good.
Angelic love is unconditional. Even though we may choose not to believe in them, they will still love us. It is this love we will eventually learn. The sacred bond we have with our partner where we practice kindness and forgiveness, is a start. Eventually we will master such feelings and extend this special love to all mankind and beyond.
Learning to speak to our guardian angel is not as difficult as you may think. We are all of spirit and therefore, we all have the ability to be psychic and connect with the Angelic Kingdom. 

My illustration above is for a poem taken from my book ‘The Second Sparky Book of Hours,’ called, ‘Talking to your Angel’. The poem may help you with this process of communication. It involves trust and the process of asking. Don’t be afraid or be tempted to feel stupid. After all, there is no better way to demonstrate your courage by believing without seeing, than to honour a loyal and loving friend. 
If you would like to purchase this poem and others from, 'The Angel Book of Hours,' you can as an eBook via our website at:


‘Talking to your Angel,’ is taken from, ‘The Second Sparky Book of Hours’ by Lucian Eyers © 2008 
 

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